In the previous post you discovered that the key ingredients to feel fulfilled were 5 Signature Strengths:
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Gratitude
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Optimism
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Zest
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Curiosity
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Love
Do you have these five strengths in your top ten strengths? If you do not know your strengths, you can find out what they are by taking the Values in Action (VIA) Inventory on www.authentichappiness.org.
The best news is that if these strengths are not high for you, you can increase them. For instance, to increase:
1. Gratitude - count your blessings by writing down three things you are grateful for or appreciate stating “why”. Do this several times a week. Be sure to do it when you are having a tough day.
2. Optimism - practice “savoring” the joys of life instead of “stewing” on problems. When you have a problem, be specific about who or what is involved, and stay in the present. Stop generalizing about problems or projecting them into the future.
3. Zest - do something that you already do but with more energy, or include some creative or different ways of doing it. Notice an increase in energy when you are savoring even momentary pleasures.
4. Curiosity - get more information about something you are interested in; ask questions; be open to new ideas.
5. Love - spend time and energy with family and friends. Strong personal relationships bring a high level of satisfaction with life.
In summary, the key to increasing your fulfillment with life is to look for novelty and opportunities to challenge yourself in each of the above strengths. Working with a coach is a way to practice improving one or more of these strengths while keeping your stress at a level that is helpful to you. Coaching helps hold you accountable while giving support.
Action step: Using some of these five strengths, how can you find opportunities for novelty and challenge that will increase your level of fulfillment?
Maurine




