If you are concerned about being a workaholic or that you are letting your job take over your life, the following strategies may be helpful:
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Write down an ideal weekly plan that includes family and social time, leisure activities and personal time. You can do this in the form of a pie chart if you want to have a visual image of how you would like to spend your time. Choose one or two areas and develop action steps that will help you make the areas a reality. When that is going well, add other areas until you are getting closer to how you want to be spending your time.
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Set regular work hours and stick to them except for emergencies.
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When you say “Yes” to something, think of what you will say “No” to in order to keep your commitment.
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Learn to delegate some of your responsibilities.
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Say “No” if you are over-committed or before you become over-committed.
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Make sure your goals are reachable; avoid perfectionism.
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Learn to savor the moment in order to enhance your level of satisfaction and happiness.
True workaholics often unconsciously use work and busyness to avoid intimacy. Also working long hours can make them feel important. Some people put in long hours, but they are not workaholics. They enjoy having free time and being playful at times. If you are one of these people, you may find several of the strategies listed above helpful also.
In reality, living a more balanced life enhances well-being and increases your energy. These are qualities we can all benefit from.
Action Steps: To stop being a workaholic, begin by taking “baby steps” that are not threatening. Choose the easiest suggested strategy or come up with something you want to try that is not too much of a stretch for you. When you are successful with one strategy, it is easier to focus on another one. Think of this as beginning a process to bring more balance in your life. You will not regret it.
Maurine




